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Grief and growth can happen at the same time, even when you wish you could skip the hard part entirely.
 
In Part 2 of my conversation with Pam Vredevelt, we’re talking about how to navigate grief while continuing to show up for your family, business, and calling. As Christian women in business and leadership, it can be tempting to push through our pain or feel guilty when good things happen in the middle of a difficult season. But what if we could make room for both the heartache and the joy?
 
Pam shares practical ways to process grief, become more emotionally aware, and have honest conversations with God. We also talk about finding life-giving ways to serve others, embracing seasons of pruning, and trusting that God can bring redemption even through our deepest losses.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why grief and joy can coexist, and why you don’t have to choose one over the other.
How to process difficult emotions through prayer, journaling, and honest conversations with God.
What it means to keep growing and flourishing while walking through a hard season.
How serving others can help bring perspective and renewed purpose.
Why God’s presence can be a source of joy even when life feels devastating.
 
If you’re walking through a season you never asked for, I hope this conversation reminds you that you don’t have to rush your healing or put your calling on hold. God can meet you in the middle of the pain and help you grow through it.
 
Connect with Pam Vredevelt: Find Pam’s information and resources in the show notes.
 
And come back for Part 2 as we continue this conversation about grief, healing, and the growth God can bring from seasons we never would have chosen.
 
Pam Vredevelt is an Author, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Inspirational Speaker Pam’s reputation as a sought-after counselor, popular conference speaker, and best-selling author is built on her ability to explore real life issues with authenticity, warmth, and humor. Compelling stories, engaging faith, and perceptive insight give Pam the rare ability to inspire and empower audiences with practical tools for long lasting change.
 
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Firebrand Rapid Fire with Laura Jenkins: We’re also sharing a short Firebrand Rapid Fire conversation with Laura Jenkins, who opens up about burnout, resilience, faith, and how her journey inspired her adaptogen coffee brand.
 
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Episode 191: The Growth You Never Asked For with Pam Vredevelt (Part 1)
 
Sometimes the hardest seasons are the ones we never saw coming. And when you're a woman who leads a business, cares for a family, and shows up for everyone else, it can be easy to keep moving without giving yourself permission to grieve.
 
In this episode of SHE CAN SHARE, I’m joined by Pam Vredevelt, a therapist with over 40 years of experience and the author of 17 books, including Mending Miracles. Pam shares her deeply personal journey through loss and how God met her in the middle of heartbreak. Together, we unpack what grief really looks like, why staying busy doesn’t make it disappear, and how we can begin healing without putting pressure on ourselves to move on before we’re ready.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why grief can come from more than losing a loved one, including unexpected changes, job loss, and shattered dreams.
How naming your emotions can help you understand what’s happening inside.
Practical ways to process grief through prayer, journaling, and honest conversations with God.
Why healing happens best in relationships and how to support someone without trying to fix them.
How to give yourself grace when your healing journey doesn’t follow anyone else’s timeline.
 
If you’re walking through a season you never expected, I hope this conversation reminds you that you don’t have to rush your healing. Even in the darkest grief, God can still be planting seeds of new life.
 
Connect with Pam Vredevelt: Find Pam’s information and resources in the show notes.
 
And come back for Part 2 as we continue this conversation about grief, healing, and the growth God can bring from seasons we never would have chosen.
 
Pam Vredevelt is an Author, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Inspirational Speaker Pam’s reputation as a sought-after counselor, popular conference speaker, and best-selling author is built on her ability to explore real life issues with authenticity, warmth, and humor. Compelling stories, engaging faith, and perceptive insight give Pam the rare ability to inspire and empower audiences with practical tools for long lasting change.
 
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Life doesn’t always wait for you to feel ready, healed, or put together before it asks you to keep moving.
 
In this episode of She Can Share, I’m letting you into a really vulnerable season of my life. Right now, some beautiful things are happening—my book is launching, doors are opening, and God is expanding my influence—while at the same time, I’m walking through one of the most painful seasons of my life. Somehow, the joy and the grief are existing at the same time.
 
I’m sharing what God has been teaching me about grief, showing up when you feel messy, and not believing that you have to wait until everything is perfect before you move forward.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why you can experience grief and beautiful things at the same time
How to give yourself permission to feel your emotions instead of stuffing them down
Why being in a difficult season doesn’t disqualify you from what God has called you to do
What Jeremiah 29 taught me about prospering and expanding even in exile
Why God may still be calling you to show up, serve others, and build while you’re hurting
What it really means to “do it messy” when you’re the messy one
 
You don’t have to wait for life to be perfect to do the thing God has called you to do. Sometimes, you have to show up right in the middle of the mess—and trust that God is there with you.
 
If you’re walking through a hard season right now, I hope this episode reminds you that you are not disqualified, forgotten, or alone. There is still hope in Christ, even here.
 
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Firebrand Rapid Fire with Paula White
 
We’re also joined by Paula White for a special Firebrand Rapid Fire segment, where she shares more of her story, perspective, and the lessons behind her journey.
 
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Sometimes the thing standing between you and the next step isn’t a lack of ability—it’s the voice in your own head telling you that you can’t.
 
In this episode of She Can Share, I’m getting real about the thoughts and limiting beliefs that have held me back—and might be holding you back too. From worrying about what people will think to telling yourself you’re not good enough, not smart enough, too much, too shy, or simply not ready, these thoughts can quietly keep us from sharing the gifts, dreams, and messages God has placed inside us.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
How fear of other people’s opinions can keep you from stepping out
Why negative self-talk can become one of the biggest things holding you back
How to recognize and challenge limiting beliefs
The difference between knowing your weaknesses and allowing them to define you
Why God calls us to move beyond fear and step forward with boldness
How to “mother yourself” with encouragement instead of constantly criticizing yourself
 
You have something to say. You have something to give. And there may be someone on the other side of your message who needs to hear it.
So stop letting what other people might think—or what you’ve been telling yourself—keep you stuck. Take it to the Lord, challenge those limiting beliefs, and take the next step.
 
If this episode encouraged you, I’d love to hear from you. Send me an email and let me know what you’re taking away from this episode, and don’t forget to leave a review!
 
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There are seasons when following God means being willing to walk a little differently than everyone around you.
 
In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means to live set apart in your business—and why being set apart doesn’t always feel comfortable. Sometimes God calls us into lonely places, pruning seasons, and moments where we have to trust Him before we can see what He’s doing.
 
We’ll talk about what happens when God expands your influence, why expansion can sometimes feel lonely, and how to stay grounded in God’s presence when you’re making big decisions in your business, brand, or calling.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why being set apart can require you to become comfortable with uncomfortable seasons
How God uses pruning and solitude to prepare us for greater influence
Why expansion doesn’t always mean adding more—it can mean letting go
How to trust God when you feel alone, misunderstood, or uncertain about your next step
Why seeking God first matters when you’re making major business and life decisions
How to recognize that God’s presence—not the outcome—is where your victory begins
 
And remember, being set apart doesn’t mean being abandoned. God is with you in the lonely places, the valley seasons, and the mountaintops.
 
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Firebrand Rapid Fire with Misty O’Fiel
 
I’m also joined by Misty O’Fiel for this episode’s Firebrand Rapid Fire segment! Misty shares what she’s learned through seasons of hardship, grief, faith, and stepping into the next chapter God has for her.
 
If you’re walking through a season where you feel like you’re between what was and what’s next, this conversation will encourage you to keep trusting God and take the next brave step.
 
Connect with Misty:Rise & River — https://riseandriver.org/
 
Take a little time to listen, reflect, and ask God where He may be inviting you to live—and lead—more set apart in this season.

Sometimes the biggest step toward what God has next for you is deciding what you’re finally ready to let go of.
 
As we move into the final quarter of 2026, I’ve been thinking about what’s working, what isn’t, and what might need to be eliminated in order to make room for expansion. Because expansion doesn’t always mean adding more clients, more content, more opportunities, or more responsibilities. Sometimes, it requires subtraction first.
 
In this episode, we’re talking about the things we may have outgrown but are still carrying—old habits, obligations, relationships, business models, roles, or even identities. I’ll share why elimination isn’t necessarily failure; sometimes, it’s obedience.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why expansion often requires subtraction before addition
How to recognize what is draining your energy or no longer producing fruit
The difference between what is familiar and what is actually fruitful
Why something God blessed in one season may not be something He’s asking you to carry into the next
How to make room for the calling God is expanding you into
Why trusting God sometimes means stepping into the uncomfortable space between what you’re releasing and what comes next
 
And because you don’t need to carry everything into your next season, I want to encourage you to prayerfully ask: What needs to go?
 
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Meet Jade Smith
Jade Smith is a business owner, mom, homeschooler, worshiper, and operations expert who helps business-owner moms build the support they need to create a more sustainable lifestyle. In this episode’s Firebrand Rapid Fire segment, Jade shares about her journey through the fire, learning to trust God, and discovering how God uses our stories and experiences to reveal our calling.
 
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Laughing Over Tomorrow Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3z3KJksARULLK8E00pi8em?si=9eef395ea9d14c65
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Episode 186: The Bad Mom Lie with Theresa Todd
 
A bad moment doesn’t make you a bad mom—but sometimes shame can make it feel that way.
 
In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Theresa Todd, host of The BAD Mom Show, for an honest conversation about motherhood, identity, shame, and what it looks like to step into your God-given authority as a mom.
 
Theresa opens up about growing up with the belief that she was “the bad one” and how that eventually turned into perfectionism, performance, and constantly trying to prove her worth. We talk about how those same patterns followed her into motherhood and what happened when God began showing her that she didn’t have to earn her value through how well she performed.
 
We also dive into the difference between guilt and shame, how to recognize the lies we’ve believed about ourselves, and how renewing our minds with God’s truth can change the way we lead our homes.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why attaching your worth to your performance can create a cycle of shame
The difference between guilt and shame—and why shame attacks your identity
How to recognize your triggers and get curious about what’s underneath them
Why motherhood is one of the most important mantles of leadership
How God’s Word can help you challenge the lies you’ve believed about yourself
What it looks like to take spiritual authority and boldly speak truth over your family
 
Motherhood was never meant to be a performance you have to perfect. You are already loved, chosen, and equipped by God for the family He has entrusted to you.
 
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I’m a bad mom,” I hope this conversation reminds you that one hard moment does not define who you are. You can receive grace, renew your mind, and lead your home from a place of identity instead of shame.
 
Connect with Theresa and learn more about The BAD Mom Show and the resources she offers for moms who want to grow in confidence, faith, and leadership.
 
IG: https://www.instagram.com/thetheresatodd/ www.thetheresatodd.com
 
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Influence sounds exciting—until you realize it comes with responsibility.
 
There’s a difference between being popular and actually making an impact. And when God begins expanding your influence, your business, your platform, or your reach, there’s a deeper question to consider: Are you ready to steward what He’s entrusted to you?
 
In this episode, I’m talking about what happens when God gives you influence and why growth isn’t just about becoming more visible. It’s about integrity, consistency, humility, courage, and being willing to show up even when nobody is watching.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why influence is not the same thing as popularity
What it really means to steward your time, voice, business, and platform
Why God may ask you to show up consistently before anyone is watching
How visibility can bring fears of criticism, judgment, and being misunderstood
Why your message needs to be accessible to the people who need it
How the parable of the talents challenges us to stop hiding what God has given us
 
Sometimes expansion means becoming visible in ways you’ve never been visible before. But you don’t have to have everything figured out—you simply need to faithfully use what God has placed in your hands.
 
If you’re ready to grow your influence while staying grounded in who God has called you to be, this episode is for you.
 
Ready to expand your business and free the founder? If you’re approaching six figures or already in the 7–8 figure range and know you need more support, check out the expansion offer in the show notes and book a call with my team.
 
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Firebrand Rapid Fire Segment:
Continue the Conversation with Theresa Todd
 
Loved hearing Theresa’s story in this special Firebrand Rapid Fire segment? Connect with her through The BAD Mom Show and join the BAD Mom Society, a free community created to encourage women in motherhood, leadership, and their God-given calling.
 
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Website: www.thetheresatodd.com
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Growth can feel surprisingly uncomfortable when you’re stepping into something you’ve never done before.
 
In this episode, I’m talking about those seasons where you’re wondering, “Am I stuck, or is God actually expanding me?” Because sometimes the discomfort, uncertainty, and fear we experience aren’t signs that we’re on the wrong path—they’re simply evidence that we’re somewhere we’ve never been before. I want to help you recognize the difference between fear and discernment, and learn to trust God even when you don’t feel ready.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why discomfort doesn’t automatically mean you’re doing the wrong thing
How to recognize when God is stretching you into something new
Why the calling often comes before the confidence
The difference between “I can’t” and “I’ve never”
How to discern the difference between fear and a genuine warning from God
Why your next level may require new support, systems, and people around you
 
If you’ve been feeling stretched in your business, leadership, or calling, I want you to pause before you label yourself as stuck. You may not be stuck at all. You may simply be expanding beyond the way you’ve operated before.
 
Sometimes the next step isn’t about feeling ready. It’s about trusting God enough to take the step anyway.
 
Listen in, sit with these questions, and ask yourself: Where am I feeling stretched right now—and could this actually be evidence that I’m expanding?
 
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Episode 183: Game Changer Strategy For Your Faith and Business
 
Sometimes the breakthrough you’re believing God for starts with something that has already happened.
 
In this episode, I’m sharing a simple but powerful strategy for building faith in your business, ministry, and life: your testimony. When God has done something once, it becomes a reminder of what He can do again. Instead of overlooking your wins or comparing yourself to someone else’s breakthrough, I want to encourage you to recognize what God has already done and put that testimony on repeat.
 
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why your testimony can become a powerful source of faith for your next breakthrough
How to take the wins you’ve experienced in business and use them to build your confidence for what’s next
Why you should repeat and share your testimonies instead of keeping them to yourself
How to shift from comparison and jealousy when someone else experiences a breakthrough
What it looks like to create an atmosphere of faith around the things you’re believing God for
Why stretching yourself and dreaming bigger can create opportunities for God to receive the glory
 
If you’re entering a new season in your business and wondering what God might do next, I want you to look back before you look forward. What has He already done? What testimony can you put on repeat?
 
Let that become the anthem you carry into your next season.
If this episode encourages you, send it to a Christian woman in business who needs a faith boost, and let me know what testimony you’re believing God to repeat in your life.
 
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